Welcome, I am Yingli
(I offer online and face-to-face sessions in English and Mandarin.)
Hi, I am Yingli
Have you ever felt low in self-esteem or a lack of self-worth?
⮕ Do you feel insecure and insubstantial?
⮕ Do you value other people's opinions more than yours?
⮕ Do you always seek validation and approval from others?
⮕ Do you find it difficult to advocate for what you need?
⮕ Do you like yourself for who you are?
If you have found my work, I believe you are a seeker of personal growth and transformation. If you feel the above questions are relevant to your current situation, my service may be of resource to you. I'm here to help you with guidance and tools to work though these problems.
Hello, I am Yingli. I am an Integrative and Transpersonal Counsellor and a Mother-Daughter Relationship Coach based in Central & Southwest London.
I meet clients in Clapham Junction, London Bridge and Surbiton (KT6), and I also provide Online Counselling for clients who prefer online engagement. I am a registered member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)and strictly adhere their ethical framework.
While I work with various mental and emotional problems or stress, I am specialized in working with women's low self-esteem and self-worth issues. My aspiration is to help women acquire tangible guidance to overcome low self-esteem and fragile self-worth, so you can become the self-assured woman and live a more authentic and purposeful life.
Besides the professional counselling and psychotherapy training, I am also an experienced Mother-Daughter Relationship Therapist and Coach. I have worked with many daughters individually 1:1 online via Zoom over the world, including Europe, US, Canada, Mainland China, Hong Kong, Taiwan, South Korean, and help them set healthy boundaries with their mother, and as well as get their inner and outer relationship with their mother transformed.
If you struggle with low self-esteem, vulnerable self-worth, or lack of confidence, I provide solid counselling guidance to help you improve feeling of self-esteem or self-worth by creating a non-judgemental view of yourself and changing the way you think and feel about yur life.
Mother-Daughter Relationship Therapy/Coaching
I am an mother-daughter relationship therapist and coach who facilitates mother-daughter coaching sessions that support daughters setting healthy boundaries with their mothers and going through a deep emotional transformation associated with their mothers.
Compassion, involves the recognition and clearly seeing of suffering. I aim to help my clients to develop greater sense of care and self-acceptance through developing self-compassion and compassion to others. And I will treat my clients with the above attitude.
Authenticity helps us build deeper connections with others and bring trust and respect the relationshps. I treat my clients with authenticity and enourage them to develop stronger authentic selves.
I help my clients to transform their limited selves, such as, overcoming self-limiting negative beliefs, healing destructive emotional and relationship patterns, accepting past failures and mistakes, and so on.
'Self-worth is vital to our wellbeing and happiness. If you feel good enough about yourself, it's easy to feel good about anything else.'
Over the years, I have seen so many women are struggling with low self-esteem and low self-worth. I myself have also been fallen into these pitfalls. There is often a sense of not belonging and loneliness behind a disempowering belief that "we are not enough for who we are".
One thing I realise is women today face unprecedented pressure due to changing roles in society, including the pressure of survival, relationships, parenting and workplace competition, and so on.
That's why I commit myself to help women overcome low self-esteem and reconnect with your intrinsic self-worth, so you can enjoy an emotionally connected and supportive bond with others, and live a more meaningful and authentic life without guilt.
"When I found Yingli's profile through the Black, African and Asian Therapy Network, her friendly and professional profile was immediately assuring. She aims to 'boost women's confidence, sense of self-worth and personal power,' and I can confidently say I achieved all of these aims with Yingli's support. Over the course of our sessions I moved several times and experienced the ending of a long-term relationship. Regardless of the state of mind I was experiencing before our scheduled appointments, I left each session feeling an increased appreciation of my own capabilities and boundaries and a clearer sense of my direction. She was a reliable, steady presence who held space for me to regularly pause and reflect, and I would recommend her to many women I know and have yet to meet."
34 years old, London
Vice President Information Technology, Bjorn & Bjork
"When I first met Yingli I was struggling with confidence issues, which was having a huge effect on my resilience and perspective on life. Through our time together, Yingli has helped me to better connect to my emotional wellbeing and identified the things that impact my mental health negatively. I thoroughly value our sessions together, which create a safe, non-judgementmal and honest space for me to reflect and decompress each week, troubleshooting issues and celebrating the life’s wins. I feel now lighter, more resilient and confident even through the harder days, and as result my relationships with other people and most importantly, myself, have blossomed."
31 years old, Surrey UK
"I have been working with Yingli for seven and a half months, and every week I look forward to our sessions. As a person, Yingli always brings her quietly-sunny expression, and as a therapist she is very attuned & perceptive. She is able to quickly adapt her methods to my needs – whether a conversation, a brief meditation, a fun game of drawing etc, depending on what mood or depth I bring to the session on that day. Our conversation goes far beyond just talking. Her enquiries often offer a very unique surprising angle, which I find extremely beneficial and for which I am grateful. Thank you, Yingli!"
35 years old, Lisbon Portugal
"I came to Yingli looking for someone who could help me through issues around guilt and anxiety. After some unfruitful counselling sessions elsewhere, I contacted Yingli as I felt I needed someone who understood the issues I had around my ethnic and cultural upbringing. From the outset, I found it very easy to speak with Yingli and I always felt heard and understood. I found that I was often surprised by some of the questions she would ask me, and how it'd frame my issues in a new light and help me to navigate my problems in a different and helpful way. Yingli always keeps the goals in focus, which keeps sessions on track and constructive and because of this I made really good progress. She's certainly helped me to regain faith in counselling and I would return to her or recommend her sessions without hesitation."
🕒: Monday - Friday (Saturday & Sunday Closed)
📞: +44 (0)7881 520 882
Psychotherapy & Counselling in London
Mother-Daughter Relationship Therapeutic Coaching
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